Specialized Therapy for Sex and Porn Addiction in California
Now offering both in-person and online therapy for men, women, and couples across California.
Does Any of This Sound Familiar?
✅ Struggling with porn use, cheating, or compulsive sexual behavior?
✅ Afraid you’ll lose your partner, family, or stability after betrayal?
✅ Feeling overwhelmed with guilt, shame, or panic about what happened?
✅ Just discovered your partner’s betrayal and don’t know what to do next?
✅ Constantly replaying events, questioning everything, and feeling unsafe?
✅ Stuck in secrecy, lies, or emotional distance and can’t break the cycle?
✅ Unsure if the relationship can heal—or if you even want to stay?
✅ You’re searching for support from therapists who understand addiction and betrayal trauma — and can guide both individuals and couples through healing
Whether you're in Long Beach, Lakewood, or Seal Beach, we offer therapy for sex addiction, betrayal trauma, and relationship repair.
About Our Practice
At Novus Mindful Life, we work with both those facing sex and porn addiction and those impacted by it. We understand how painful and disorienting these experiences can be — whether you're the partner who feels betrayed, or the one who caused the pain and is desperate to fix what’s broken.
Our approach is rooted in evidence-based practices that focus on addressing the underlying causes of addiction and trauma. We understand the urgency and desperation that often accompany these issues, particularly when discovered by a significant other or after a crisis event.
We can help you with:
Sex and Porn Addiction: Offering expert guidance to help you break free from destructive behaviors and regain control of your life.
Betrayal Trauma and Infidelity: Providing support for you and your partner as you navigate the pain of betrayal and work towards rebuilding trust.
Crisis Management: Immediate assistance to help you manage the acute crisis, stabilize your situation, and begin the recovery process.
Couples Therapy: Helping couples heal from the damage of infidelity and addiction, focusing on restoring trust and rebuilding the relationship.
Free 15-Minute Consultation
Find out if our practice is right for you!
Call (562) 502-1897 or fill out this form to get started:
Our Therapy Services
Our therapy services are designed to meet the unique needs of men and women facing sex and porn addiction, particularly those in crisis.
We offer a range of therapeutic modalities that provide comprehensive support for your recovery journey, ensuring that your care is both empathetic and tailored to your specific situation.
Individual Therapy: Personalized one-on-one sessions that focus on your immediate challenges, helping you navigate the crisis and begin healing.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): Proven strategies to help you manage the thoughts and behaviors that drive addiction, empowering you to make lasting changes.
EMDR Therapy: Specialized treatment to process and heal from the trauma associated with addiction, betrayal, and other distressing experiences.
Mindfulness-Based Therapies: Techniques to help you stay grounded, reduce stress, and enhance your resilience during recovery.
Couples Therapy: Focused sessions to help you and your partner rebuild trust, improve communication, and recover from the impact of addiction and betrayal.
Our goal is to support you in reclaiming control over your life, healing from past wounds, and building a future filled with hope and stability. We provide a safe, non-judgmental space where you can openly explore your thoughts and feelings as you work towards recovery.
What Our Clients Say
"I have consulted with Duane Osterlind at Novus on several occasions over the past year, and found him to be highly knowledgeable, compassionate and responsive to my concerns. I would highly recommend this center for experienced, professional help with issues that are often difficult to face alone." - Bob B.
"As someone who has seen the positive impact Novus Mindful Life has had on others, I can confidently say they are exceptional in the field of couples counseling and sex addiction. The team is known for their compassionate approach and deep expertise, creating a safe space for clients to heal and grow. Their dedication to supporting individuals and couples through difficult times is truly commendable. If you’re looking for professional and empathetic guidance, Novus Mindful Life is a trusted resource. Highly recommended!" - Ryan S.
"Dr. Barbara Christian has helped me enormously in determining root causes of trauma through EMDR and developing plans to better manage life events. Dr. Christian truly cares about her clients and is determined to help cut through issues to best support them in improving their lives." - Dan T.
"You are wonderful people helping my partner and I make some needed changes. This office has been instrumental in lending a safe space for our relationship to grow" - Dana C.
"The front office staff is not only very helpful, but extremely kind. Taking a personal approach in not only their care, but also in the way they speak to people. Duane Osterlind is both a wonderful therapist and caring human; I can tell they treat every patient with understanding and a unique approach with their treatment." - Claudia S.
How We Deliver Therapy:
In-Person therapy sessions available at our office (6695 East Pacific Coast Highway, #135 Long Beach, CA 90803)
Online therapy sessions are available statewide in California,Texas, Florida, Idaho and Virginia.
FAQs
What challenges or struggles do you help with?
At Novus, we specialize in addressing sex and pornography addiction, along with the accompanying mental health challenges like anxiety and depression. Our expertise extends to helping individuals and couples navigate the complexities of betrayal trauma as well as resoring trust in a relationship after infidelity. We provide compassionate, personalized care to guide our clients towards recovery and relationship healing.
Do you offer therapy for couples or partners?
Yes. We provide couples therapy focused on healing from betrayal trauma, infidelity, and the impact of compulsive sexual behavior. Our sessions support both partners in repairing connection and building trust.
Do you offer therapy for women and partners of addicts?
Yes. We support both partners affected by sex or porn addiction — whether you’re the one in crisis or the one feeling hurt and betrayed.
What is betrayal trauma?
Betrayal trauma happens when you discover a partner’s infidelity, porn use, or secret sexual behavior. You may feel shock, loss of trust, anxiety, or emotional instability. We help you process the pain and find safety and clarity.
Is online therapy effective for these issues?
Absolutely. Online therapy gives you private, judgment-free access to expert care—no commute, no waiting room.
What types of therapy do you offer?
At Novus, we offer a diverse range of therapeutic approaches to best suit the individual needs of our clients. These include Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Psychodynamic Therapy, Couples Therapy, and specialized treatments for sex and porn addiction and betrayal trauma. Each method is tailored to foster profound personal growth, healing, and effective coping strategies.
Is this therapy confidential?
Yes. All sessions are fully confidential and conducted via secure, HIPAA-compliant video platform.
Is this therapy judgment-free?
Absolutely. Whether you're working through addiction, betrayal, or crisis — we provide compassionate support without shame or blame.
What is a CSAT?
Our Certified Sex Addiction Therapists (CSATs) are experts in trauma treatment and addressing the underlying causes of sex addiction. They possess extensive training to recognize the origins, experiences, and patterns that contribute to sex addiction, enabling them to provide tailored treatment plans for each client. Trust our highly-trained professionals to guide you towards a healthier and happier life.
I’m ready to schedule my first appointment. What's next?
It’s great that you are ready to start therapy. The best first step is to give a call at (562) 502-1897 or fill out the form on the page.
Take the First Step Toward Healing
Call us today at (562) 502-1897 or send a message by clicking the button below.
Schedule a consultation to explore how we can support your mental health and guide you toward healing.
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Novus Mindful Life
Confidential & In-person Therapy for Individuals and Couples in California
Whether you're looking for help as a couple, as a betrayed partner, or someone working to overcome addiction — we're here for you.
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